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Once upon a Hinge match, Jake and Carina exchanged virtual words for the first time in the summer of 2023. Carina was smitten by the sweet and thoughtful voice notes Jake would send her and appreciated his listening skills since she would often ramble about the palliative care rotation she was on as she wrapped up her third year of medical school. Jake appreciated Carina’s thoughtful messages, smiling face, and the fact that she was clearly a goober. The first date sealed the deal for both of them. From the second they laid eyes on each other on June 17, 2023, they knew there was something special between them. Cliches are indeed cliches for a reason. Carina was running a few minutes late which she felt horrible about, so she was speed walking to their meeting point at Clark Park on a hot sticky Saturday morning. Jake stood on the corner melting into the ground and hiding behind a bus stop as Carina crossed the street. They embraced, exchanged hellos and Jake immediately noticed that Carina appeared a little flustered (which she was trying to hide) so he offered to find a place to sit and take a beat. That seemingly small gesture ended up being Carina’s first taste of Jake’s immensely warm, perceptive, and generous heart which she appreciated wholeheartedly right from the start. After cooling off under the shade of some trees and watching the bustle of the Clark Park farmer’s market, Jake and Carina went to say hello to a couple of Jake’s friends (shout out to Neilay and Dana) and their three week old baby who happened to be at the park that morning as well. Over the next 6 hours, Jake and Carina went to a sidewalk sale, grabbed a snack from Alif’s brew, strolled around the Woodland’s cemetery and had their first kiss among the graves. A bit morbid, but wildly romantic in the moment. You had to be there. They then proceeded to see each other several times that following week with Jake even meeting Carina’s parents that next weekend as he helped her move across town. And that was just the very beginning. The chemistry and connection was so effortless so instantly that Jake and Carina would frequently turn to each other to acknowledge how completely bizarre that was. Turns out neither one of them had ever met their person before. Since their meeting, Jake and Carina have had many adventures together. Some highlights include: exchanging their first ‘I love you’s’ on Jake’s couch after co-hosting a BBQ, matching Halloween costumes, roadtripping across Italy fully paid for by the airline thanks to Jake’s haggling skills and dumb luck, Carina becoming Dr. Guerra, Jake navigating work, friends, and his constantly shifting hobbies, moving in together into their cozy home in the Italian Market, adopting their 100% PomeranianTM fur child Mimi, spending weekends enjoying the splendors of Korean spas, Pho 75, competitive games of Ecologies, daily summer walks to John’s Water Ice, and what streaming services have to offer. Of course, adventures aren’t always spa days. Jake and Carina have supported each other through sickness, stress at work, the passing of family members, and through the day to day frustrations, philosophical quandaries, miscommunications, fatigue and bad habits that can bring us down. These difficulties have only deepened their relationship and emphasized how important it has been to have each other in their lives. As they began to grapple with these inevitable challenges life and life-long relationships bring, they started to learn how to fall in love and commit to one another every single day. Now it has been about 2.5 years (another marker has been that aforementioned 3 week-old baby’s age), and Jake and Carina have decided they want to keep having adventures, whatever life may bring, together until the end of time. Their time, at least. They are over the moon to share their wedding celebration with their communities who have all played their own special roles in Jake and Carina’s love story. They can’t wait to see everyone who can make it! And for those who can’t, they look forward to seeing you another time, hopefully soon!

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Saturday, September 5thWedding Celebration: 11AM - 4PM Boathouse at FDR Park, Philadelphia, PA

Afterparty/ South Street Bar Crawl:7PM - ?Meet at Bob and Barbara's Lounge1509 South St, Philadelphia, PA 19146Google Maps link: https://maps.app.goo.gl/8FRPibrwAMrhdiXg6

Sunday, September 6thBYOBagel Park Brunch:11AM-1PMishWith bagel in hand, meet at Cianfrani Park721 S 8th St, Philadelphia, PA 19147Google Maps link:https://maps.app.goo.gl/RfiZ3j9FMW7YBvnk8**some nearby bagel recommendations:**We hope this gives some flexibility for folks wanting to explore Bella Vista and the Italian Market during their trip as there are lots of great to-go breakfast options. Our favorites include:Bart's Bagels (10th and Catherine) - this is the closest bagel spot to Cianfrani ParkRally Coffee (7th and Bainbridge) - has smaller selection of pastries and bagelsChapterhouse Cafe and Gallery (9th and Bainbridge) - also has sandwichesMorning Glory Diner (10th and Fitzwater) - more of a sit-down spot, cash only, but some things could be taken to-go

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Huge shout out to @antpagephoto our wedding photographer who took our engagement pictures (the clearly professional pictures in the gallery). We're very excited for him to capture our big day!

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📅 When is the wedding?Saturday, September 5, 2026. 11AM-4PM ⏰ What time does it start?The celebrations will begin at 11:00 AM ET. Please arrive a bit early to get settled. 📍 Where is the wedding?The celebration will take place at the Boathouse in FDR Park, South Philadelphia, PA.The Boathouse is located on the north shore of the lake, just south of the American Swedish Historical Museum. 🕰 How long is the event?The celebration will include some initial brief remarks followed by food, dancing, yard games, possibly paddle boating, and hanging out.The party ends at 4:00 PM. 🌿 Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?The Boathouse is covered, but the event is outdoors, right next to the lake. ☔ What if it rains?We all get nice and close under the boathouse and try to stay dry. 🚗 Is parking available?Yes — free parking is available in FDR Park near the venue at the American Swedish Historical Museum parking lot (across the street from the boathouse) in spots that are closest to the boathouse. ♿ Is the venue wheelchair accessible?Unfortunately, no. 👗 What is the dress code?Smart casual to garden casual but mostly smart casual.Some level of comfort is encouraged as there will be lawn games and possibly paddle boating on the lake.Frog and Toad vibes encouraged - but not required.Think browns, tans, greens, and earthy colors. 👠 Should I plan footwear accordingly?Yes — the venue is partially on grass and next to a lake/boardwalk. Choose shoes you’re comfortable standing and walking in. The main areas of the boathouse is paved and is where the tables and dance floor will be. Also, if you're interested in exploring FDR park further would definitely bring a walking shoe. 🎨 Are there any colors we should avoid?Do your thing — just don’t wear a white dress. 🪩 Will there be dancing?Yes. 🎯 Will there be other activities?Yes — expect yard games, paddle boats, maybe exploring parts of FDR park and plenty of time to relax, eat, and socialize. 🍽 What kind of food will be served?Food will be buffet-style, with vegetarian options available. There will be pork sandwiches, chicken and veggie tacos, and water ice/ice-cream. 🥂 Will there be alcohol?Yes — there will be limited drinks with a set menu. 🍺 Can I bring my own alcohol?No. 🥗 I have dietary restrictions — what should I do?Please message us directly. ✈️ What airport should I fly into?Philadelphia International Airport (PHL). 🚕 What’s the best way to get around Philly?Uber/Lyft and public transportation (Septa Transit) are great options, and much of the city is very walkable.For details on getting to the venue, please see the Travel section of the website (separate page). 👶 Are children invited?Yes — but please note:There is no childcareThe venue is on the edge of a lakeGenerally the park is child-friendly.Please use your best judgment. ➕ Can I bring a plus-one or an additional guest?Indicate plus ones when you RSVP and for additional guests, message us directly. 🎁 Are you registered?Yes — we have 2 registry funds you can find on this site. 🎁 Are gifts expected?No — gifts are not expected, though always appreciated. 🎁 Can I bring a gift to the wedding?We’d prefer not. If you’d like to give something, please use the registry. 📸 Can I take photos during the celebration?Sure! There will also be 2 professional photographers taking photos throughout the celebration. Photos will become available to guests. 📵 Is this an unplugged ceremony?No — who cares. 📱 Do you have a wedding hashtag?No. 🚭 Is smoking or vaping allowed?No. ❓ I have another question — who should I contact?Please message us directly. 🚨 Who should I contact in an emergency?ChatGPT or 911.

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Wedding Location:Boathouse at FDR Park, Philadelphia PA 19145North shore of the lake, just south of the American Swedish Historical Museum Click <a href="https://maps.app.goo.gl/udFZvRQ7ssrfKaUP7" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a> to see on Google maps. Getting to Philadelphia:By PlaneFly into Philadelphia International Airport (PHL). The airport is about a 10–15 minute drive from FDR Park, making Uber/Lyft or a rental car the easiest option. By Train (Amtrak)Amtrak service arrives at 30th Street Station from NYC and other Northeast cities (approximately 1–1.5 hours from NYC). From 30th Street Station, South Philadelphia is a short Uber/Lyft ride or subway trip. By CarPhiladelphia is accessible via I-95, I-76, and the PA Turnpike. Free parking is available near the venue. Getting to FDR Park &amp; the Venue:From Center City- 15–20 minutes by car or rideshare- 30–40 minutes via public transportationRecommended Option: Uber/LyftRideshare is the simplest way to reach the Boathouse, especially for out-of-town guests.Search “FDR Park Boathouse” or “American Swedish Historical Museum”, then follow signage toward the lake.Public Transportation (SEPTA) Subway – Broad Street Line (B1 - Orange Line)Take the subway southbound toward NRG Station (last stop)Exit at NRG StationFrom there, the Boathouse is about a 10–15 minute walk or a very short rideshareFare: ~$2.90 per ride (contactless or SEPTA Key) Bus (Optional / Local-Friendly)Route 17: Stops near 20th &amp; Pattison Ave (short walk into the park)Route 4: Stops at Broad &amp; Pattison Ave near the park entranceFare: ~$2.90 per ride (also contactless or SEPTA Key) Parking:Free parking is available within FDR Park and along nearby streets.The American Swedish Historical Museum is kind enough to let guests park in their parking lot (across the street from the Boathouse) as long as guests are parking in spots closest to the Boathouse (the south-most area of the lot).Parking is typically plentiful, but we recommend arriving a bit early.Please follow posted signs and parking regulations Helpful NotesIf using public transit, plan for a short walk within the park to the lake

Travel

Things to Do in Philly Whether you’re here for a long weekend or just a couple days, Philly is an incredible city to explore. Below are some of our favorite spots — a mix of iconic sights and personal favorites. ☕ Eat &amp; Drink Like a LocalBreakfast &amp; BrunchMiddle Child – A favorite for delicious chunky breakfast sandwiches in a fun casual spaceDutch Eating Place (Reading Terminal Market) – Carina loves the pancakes, homemade jam and scrapple (if you’re feeling brave)Alif's Brew (West Philly) – Ethiopian coffee, pastries, and breakfast plates. A spot Jake and Carina went to on their first date &lt;3Morning Glory Diner (Bella Vista) - Old school diner with a very liberal twist (politicized decor and menu names). Absolutely delicious breakfast food including house made ketchup and marshmallows (for their hot chocolate). LunchAngelo’s or Woodrow’s – Classic Philly cheesesteaksPaesano’s (Italian Market) – Italian sandwiches done rightPho 75 (Washington Ave) – No-frills, excellent phoBa Le Bakery (Washington Ave) – Banh mi's and baked goodsNan Zhou Hand Drawn Noodle House (Chinatown) - Cash only homey local favorite. Noodles, dumplings, soup, boba, and more!Doro Bet (West Philly) – Ethiopian fried chicken spot. Enough said.Vic's Sushi (Center City) - Best reasonably-priced sushi in Philly. Hole in the wall/ just the sushi counter vibes.Mama’s Falafel (Center City) – Quick, tasty, and vegetarian-friendlyOctopus Halal Food Truck (Center City, weekdays) – Legendary and slightly chaotic in the best way DinnerTrattoria Carina (Rittenhouse) – Fresh seasonal pasta dishes and cozy vibesPenang (Chinatown) – Malaysian-Chinese comfort foodTabachoy (Bella Vista) - Elevated Phillipino cuisine. Forever known for their ube soft serve sundae.Suraya (Fishtown) - Award-winning Lebanese food Honestly, you can’t really go wrong eating in Philly. 🥕 Markets, Shopping &amp; ThriftingReading Terminal Market (Center City) – A must-visit for food loversItalian Market – Grab fresh produce (Charlie’s Produce Stand is a favorite) and wanderClark Park Farmer's Market (West Philly) - Fresh produce, vendors, thriftingPhilly AIDS Thrift (Queen Village) – Great thrifting for a good cause4th Street (Queen Village) – Vintage shops and small stores 🚶 Walks &amp; Neighborhoods to ExplorePassyunk Avenue – Shops, restaurants, and classic South Philly energySouth Street – Eclectic, historic, and fun to wanderOld City – Cobblestone streets, art galleries, and early American historyRittenhouse Square &amp; Washington Square – Perfect for relaxing walks and a pic nicWest Philly + Clark Park - Take the trolly or walk slightly longer distances along Baltimore Avenue for delicious food, shops, beautiful architecture, and green spacesThe Woodlands Cemetery – A peaceful, beautiful spot (and where Carina &amp; Jake had their first date) 🖼 Culture, Parks &amp; Iconic PhillyMuseum Mile / Benjamin Franklin Parkway:Philadelphia Museum of ArtRodin MuseumThe Barnes Museum (Art)The Franklin Institute (Science)The Free LibraryAcademy of Natural SciencesFairmount Park – One of the largest urban park systems in the country, trails, gardens, all by the Schuylkill riverSchuylkill River Trail – Great for walking or bikingLiberty Bell &amp; Independence National Historical Park – Classic Philly historyFDR Park – If you’re already there, take time to explore the park and lake 🍻 Bars &amp; NightlifeBob &amp; Barbara’s – A true Philly institution on South Street and home of the CitywideTrestle Inn – Go-go dancers, great music, late-night vibesVelvet Whip – Cozy, intimate cocktail spot, live entertainment ⚾ Bonus: Phillies GameThere will be a Phillies game the night of our wedding, right next to FDR Park, if you want to keep the celebration going.

Carina & Jake

Carina & Jake

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